well on Thursday night, i don't know what makes me stop playing computer and watch the television instead.... when i was surfing the channel, one movie make me stop and watch.... it's the type of the movie that i will never watch and i don't understand why i watch it on that day....maybe the episode attract me... the movie is Grey Anatomy... the episode on that time is about heart beat..... there are many type of heart beat.. the slow , the fast... maybe the title " heart beat " attract me.... why??? well my heart have some problem but its nothing serious... just that it beat uncontrollably fast when i was anxious, scared and mostly under stressed.... and that make me feel hard to breathe..... but it will get back ok after a few days... so suffering for a few days just for a momment of stress or anxious is very very not worth it.. but it always happening.... hahahaha.. guess i should learn some management skill.... hahahaha
back to the movie.... i learn that you can actually calm a person who are anxious or slow down the person heart beat without any medication.... you just need to hug the person tightly... i guess its that tight until you can feel another person heart beat..... and that person will eventually calm down.. maybe its the assurance of love and care that you give to the person... an assurance that he/she is not alone in facing the problem make her calm... but i think and believe that our heart beat tends to follow another person that we are close to...physical or mental.... i believe that when we hug the person who are anxious close to ourself tightly and with a pure heart, their heart will slowly follow the rhythm of our heart that have a more regular heart beat and this will slowly slow down their heart beat..... i believe it but didn't experience it before....lolz..... believe doesn't need prove....
and i also listen from somewhere that babies tend to like the person who have more or less same heart beat rhythm with them..... i don't know why but all this is the wonder of nature..... i might be a cure to people naturally but doctor consultation is must if things getting worse as days past by.... scared it the problem with the heart that make the beat irregular.....
anyhow... the power of hug is something very special.... its not only a show of love but its also a show of assurance.... sometime when you wanna console a sad person, maybe all you need to do is just hug the person... the person will feel the care that being shown and sometime its more useful compare to words.... words of wisdom is what everybody know but to act according to it need time and courage... such like we always tell a person who are sad to forget about the matter. life too short to be thinking about the sad things. why can't she just use the time to try something new.and the list goes on and on...... i guess all this words doesn't really play an important part.... when we feel sad or down and people ask us to forget about it, do something else and all sort of advice... one things important here is we know all the stuff and info and ways to be happy back... but what we lack is the feeling to actually do it.. we give time to our heart and feeling to mourn, to be sad and after all what we truly wanted is someone who will understand.... a person who understand doesn't really need to give advice..... cause a person who truly understand know we all need time for everything... be it short or long... we all need time..... so a simple hug might actually make the person more relieve and give her a feeling that there are still others who concern.....and a hug definitely show that you concern more compared to words..... when you hug a person, hug it sincerely.... i believe people will return back your hug in the time when you need it....
Have you hug anyone today??
theng
28/6/09
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