The Miracle of a HUG....

well on Thursday night, i don't know what makes me stop playing computer and watch the television instead.... when i was surfing the channel, one movie make me stop and watch.... it's the type of the movie that i will never watch and i don't understand why i watch it on that day....maybe the episode attract me... the movie is Grey Anatomy... the episode on that time is about heart beat..... there are many type of heart beat.. the slow , the fast... maybe the title " heart beat " attract me.... why??? well my heart have some problem but its nothing serious... just that it beat uncontrollably fast when i was anxious, scared and mostly under stressed.... and that make me feel hard to breathe..... but it will get back ok after a few days... so suffering for a few days just for a momment of stress or anxious is very very not worth it.. but it always happening.... hahahaha.. guess i should learn some management skill.... hahahaha
back to the movie.... i learn that you can actually calm a person who are anxious or slow down the person heart beat without any medication.... you just need to hug the person tightly... i guess its that tight until you can feel another person heart beat..... and that person will eventually calm down.. maybe its the assurance of love and care that you give to the person... an assurance that he/she is not alone in facing the problem make her calm... but i think and believe that our heart beat tends to follow another person that we are close to...physical or mental.... i believe that when we hug the person who are anxious close to ourself tightly and with a pure heart, their heart will slowly follow the rhythm of our heart that have a more regular heart beat and this will slowly slow down their heart beat..... i believe it but didn't experience it before....lolz..... believe doesn't need prove....
and i also listen from somewhere that babies tend to like the person who have more or less same heart beat rhythm with them..... i don't know why but all this is the wonder of nature..... i might be a cure to people naturally but doctor consultation is must if things getting worse as days past by.... scared it the problem with the heart that make the beat irregular.....
anyhow... the power of hug is something very special.... its not only a show of love but its also a show of assurance.... sometime when you wanna console a sad person, maybe all you need to do is just hug the person... the person will feel the care that being shown and sometime its more useful compare to words.... words of wisdom is what everybody know but to act according to it need time and courage... such like we always tell a person who are sad to forget about the matter. life too short to be thinking about the sad things. why can't she just use the time to try something new.and the list goes on and on...... i guess all this words doesn't really play an important part.... when we feel sad or down and people ask us to forget about it, do something else and all sort of advice... one things important here is we know all the stuff and info and ways to be happy back... but what we lack is the feeling to actually do it.. we give time to our heart and feeling to mourn, to be sad and after all what we truly wanted is someone who will understand.... a person who understand doesn't really need to give advice..... cause a person who truly understand know we all need time for everything... be it short or long... we all need time..... so a simple hug might actually make the person more relieve and give her a feeling that there are still others who concern.....and a hug definitely show that you concern more compared to words..... when you hug a person, hug it sincerely.... i believe people will return back your hug in the time when you need it....
Have you hug anyone today??

theng
28/6/09

happy daddy day....

June 21st is daddy day and is also the last day of my work.... I've been wondering how many people in the world actually realise that daddy day was celebrated on the third week of June... a lot of people know and remember mother day but tends to forget daddy day... why? hehehehe.... well for me daddy day is equally important as mommy day and sometime more important than mommy day.. why i have this type of thinking?? well the answer is very easy only.... i feel that my dad love me more... can feel his love towards me from his action even though he never say it out.... who to call when car break down...DADDY..... last minute shopping or buying important stuff....DADDY.... latest news on sports,political issues and general interest especially on the up and down on petrol price...DADDY.... and when I was small... everytime when i have nightmare, who is the one who will assured me that i am safe and later tuck me back to sleep.... Its DADDY.... the person who will bring me shop around and go out for a ride in the motor... i used to sit at the front and all this memories is things that i can cherish.... well, my daddy is the protective type and that is why i feel safe when I'm with him... eventhough my daddy was not that tall compared to other people daddy but he will always be my hero.... lastly i'm proud to say that i'm more than happy to be called daddy girl for who wont when you have such a nice dad..... hahahahaha....
well lou tau... happy father day.....

theng

Does opposite attract???

i've been thinking about this question for quite some time. Does opposite seriously attract like magnet where the north will always attract to the south... does the same theory apply to human relationship as well.... well this question not only applicable in boy and girls relationship only, but in all type of relationship such like friendship, family love, and many many more.... well for me, i feel i will give around 70% agree to the question above... why?? cause its show in my real life..... all my friends.. close or normal all seems to have the same figure that is tall, quite outgoing, and many many more which sometime i feel quite different from me... this include my penang and sabah friends..... i once found a person, who more or less same like me, the quiet type, but after a while i feel hard to be with... why??? i have the same personality too so how come i feel hard to be friends with her?? and i've been wondering till now..... could it be its more interesting to know the life and personality that is differeent from yours or could it be you are curious with a personality that are different from yours and this invoke your interest to understand and know about it.... Could it be??? well friends, i have put a poll on this question and i hope you will at least answer it so i can have a more reliable answer ..... thanks..

The Question that full of mysteries....

Well I planned to write this post some time back. I get the inspiration to write this when i heard a song " If I was a boy " when I was working. well i always let my mind wonder to find and fantasy about the world called If. there are many aspect in life that i wonder in the world of If. maybe I'm the type that don't really have the courage and bravery to face the world and i guess that explain why i love the world of If so much.
I've been wondering, will i live the same life, if I was born in a richer family? or what would my life be if i was born in a poor family? Will i be the same person that you all know if my background was different. Will I look the same or have the same personality... hmmmm ... i wonder....
next.. my mind started to wonder about education... will i be the same person I am now if i was more hardworking and serious in my studies early on in life... what would life bring me to if i manage to maintain my excellent result in my kindergarten.... would i still the same person? would i still be taking the same course I'm currently taking.... Or will my life be different if i didn't go to form six and continue my studies in private?? What would life be then?
Lastly, my thought wonder to the most inner part of my heart, to the question that i very wish to know ever since i know how to think.... the question of what would it be if i was a boy instead of a girl.... would i receive more love and care if i was a boy than i currently have... would i be more daring in every aspect in my life..... would i still have the same friends... would i be loyal or "buaya" around.....and if i really is a boy, i guess by now i should have known an absolute answer of one question...... a question that make my heart grow in wonder.... the question is.............SECRET..... hahahahahahaha..
hope i will be a boy in my dreams so i can feel and find out how is it to be another type of human that god created, that god have entrusted so much responsibility in its shoulder....

Theng.....

A Protected Child.

So many things has happened since my last post and all happened in less than 24 hours after I finish writting that post. Was it true that God answer people prayer? hmmm.... well, i started to believe it now that god do answer people prayer. No matter what religion you are, as long as you sincerely pray to the god that you have faith in, the god that you pray will answer your prayer. Well, like I say in the beginning so many things has happened and it would be a long stories if I wanted to tell it but in it I know and realize my true self and I'm not alone. I learned and finally know that sometime when someone else doesnt love you or care about you like you expect them to be, it doesnt mean that they dont love you with all they have. Well at first I thought I was facing all the problems by my own and i really freak out on that time. But after a while I feel that I'm not alone for i got my whole family behind me, together we face the problem and together we solve it. Well in this so called problem that i face i know that i am still a protected child. And i'm happy to be one. this world is so complex and ugly and its better to be a pearl inside the oyster. lol... well to my friend, remember that night when i told you all i wanna learn to grow up and be an adult and hopefully i will be one.. the result is...I FAILED.... i will be a child at least for this momment....